How to tell if a guy is excited and wants sex

It is difficult for young girls to determine the normal manifestations during intimacy with a man. Not everyone knows how to correctly recognize the signs of male arousal. They are both physiological and psychological. Knowing them, every girl will be able to understand when the guy is excited and it's time to move on to the next stage of intimacy.

Signs of arousal during kissing

Touching each other with the lips excites boys and girls. At the moment of a kiss, men express their desire for sex with the following signs:

• Rapid breathing and heart rate.
• Biting partner's lips.
• Dilated nostrils.
• Dilation of the pupil.
• Redness of lips, cheeks.
• The guy tries to cling to the girl with his whole body.
• Formatting.
• Hoarseness of voice after a kiss.
• Before kissing a partner, he licks his lips, bites them, touches them with his fingers.
• She touches his neck after a kiss.

After the kiss, the guy is eager to continue, excited beyond measure. It will give excitement and other signs. Look at it carefully immediately after opening your lips. He will have a lost, confused look, the guy will probably take a deep breath and hug you tightly. If the kiss is not full of passion, physical and emotional stress, then the man does not have strong feelings for his partner or his head is busy with something else.

Signs of arousal after a kiss in girls are the same as in men. But women can show it more strongly, for example, by moaning or passionately stroking their partner's neck with their fingers.

During the hugs

To understand that a man is excited during a kiss is simple, you touch your lips, hear his breathing, feel his heartbeat. But hugs won't give you that much information. Although at the time of the hug, you can pay attention to the following events:

• The partner wants to hug the girl, reduce the distance between the bodies. Use any excuse to do it.
• The guy touches the partner's neck, face, hair, waist, shoulders, knees, hands.
• He does not immediately remove his hands from the body of his beloved, he delays, he wants to prolong the pleasant moment.
• The man tries to meet the woman's eyes. The gaze is deep and long.
• At the time of the hug, he puts his head on his beloved's shoulder, nuzzles his nose into her neck.
• Makes progressive movements: firmly pressed and then pulled away.
• After a passionate touch, the skin becomes "goosebumps", a shiver runs through it.
• He pulls the hem of his clothes.
• He tries to get under the girl's blouse with his palm.
• Sweaty palms.
• Increased salivation. The guy is thirsty, he drinks a lot of water.
• It stretches the muscles, keeps the back straight to look more collected, toned.
• Penile tension. This symptom is the main and most noticeable, especially if the guy wears tight pants or thin shorts.

Recently, scientists discovered another hormone - kisspeptin. It activates the cells of the pituitary gland, which is responsible for the production of gonadtropism (sexual behavior). Therefore, it is not recommended to exclude lip-to-lip kisses from foreplay. This stage triggers a chemical reaction in the body and stimulates sexual desire.

physical signs

The physiology of men and women is such that at the moment of arousal their bodies tense up, expecting intimacy with a partner. Girls become more flexible, flexible, react passionately to the touch of a partner, the nipples harden, the genitals become moist. For men, the situation is slightly different.

Normal signs of sexual excitement in men:

1. If he is next to the desired woman, he keeps his back straight.
2. He unbuttons his shirt.
3. He adjusts the belt on his pants.
4. He touches his face.
5. Responds slowly to the interlocutor's questions.
6. Spreads legs wide when sitting.
7. Standing, he takes the "legs shoulder width apart" position.
8. Pelvic swelling.
9. Active gestures.
10. He talks loud and fast.
11. He looks at the girl trying to catch her eye.
12. He opens his arms as if imitating a hug.
13. Embarrassed.
14. He often licks his lips.
15. He opens his mouth.
16. It lowers the timbre of the voice, a slight hoarseness may appear.
17. The face becomes sweet, kind, conducive to communication.
18. Eyebrows raised.
19. He stutters in conversation.
20. Pupils dilate, eye color may change.

Apart from these manifestations, to know that a man is excited in the extreme, his sweaty palms, his trembling hands, and his behavior like a peacock that has fluffed its tail and calls for its favorite female help. At such times, girls need to control their behavior so that flirting does not go too far if the woman is not planning to have sex. Giving a guy false hope with tricks, touching and flirting is not worth it.

Psychological signs

It is very difficult for men to hide their arousal. They are given by psychological signs of excitement. Children do certain things, gesture in a particular way. It is impossible to control this process. So pay close attention to your partner. You will understand that the guy is excited, but he is hiding this fact if you notice the following manifestations:

1. A man is concerned about his appearance. Fixes clothes, hairstyle, looks in the mirror.
2. It does not stray far from the object of attention.
3. He lengthens the hand touching time if his girlfriend passes him something.
4. He is shy to kiss, so he touches the girl's face and hair.
5. He showers the girl with compliments.
6. He moves to a whisper if he says something familiar.
7. He feels uncomfortable if a girl stares at him without taking her eyes off him.
8. He tries to please his partner to get what he wants.
9. When a girl reciprocates, she smiles, she experiences a spiritual uplift.

The psychological aspects of arousal must be considered individually. Each person has their own behavioral characteristics.

Signs of arousal when texting

Modern people very often create love relationships through dating websites and social networks, so correspondence becomes an integral part of communication. If the girl has not yet met with the interlocutor in person and writes several dozens of SMS every day, you need to think about the fact that the man wants intimacy, approach.

You can understand that a man is excited during correspondence by the following signs:

• He often visits the social network to check for new messages from the object of attention.
• He uses any excuse to text a girl.
• He asks to take a picture or sends his own. The sincerity of the desired image depends on the degree of closeness between the guy and the girl.
• Responds quickly to messages, ready to help at any time of the day or night.
• He honestly admits that he wishes, although the phrases can be covered. For example, "I'd like to see you now", "You can't do it alone, I could help if I was around", "Too bad we live in different cities, I would definitely subscribe to your swimming section and carefully check theyour figure. "
• He wants to correspond more often in the evenings, when he is relaxed and alone.

On a note! It is believed that the duration of sexual intercourse and the hardness of the penis directly depends on the behavior and appearance of a woman at the time of foreplay. Moans, gentle touches on the buttocks, back, body movements help stimulate a man for quality sex.

When we talk on the phone

Signs of horny men on the phone will be:

• Great conversations.
• Calling for any reason.
• Pauses in conversation.
• Ambiguous phrases and questions with sexual connotations, so the guy searches the waters.
• The voice is hoarse, the man tries to speak softly, to get rid of rude words.
• The boy is confused in his thoughts, he answers incoherently.
• In an excited man, the reaction to external stimuli slows down. So he speaks slowly on the phone.
• The guy breathes deeply, sighs often.
• Seeks to meet as soon as possible.
• He constantly repeats that he likes the interlocutor.
• He offers her different options for dating, agrees to any terms of the meeting.
• He illuminates the girl's feelings by describing his virtues.

It is impossible to excite and tease a man with correspondence, phone conversations for too long. Set the line yourself, taking into account the male character, his temperament. Otherwise, he will calm down and lose interest.

Advice for girls

Consider the advice of sexologists on how to use knowledge about the physiological and psychological signs of male arousal:

1. Heart palpitations, shortness of breath and wide eyes are uncontrollable signs of arousal in men, so they are the main ones. Please read this information first.
2. Verbal symptoms of sex drive include tone of voice, cadence, and conversational characteristics. To notice them, you need to contact a man not by mail, but in reality.
3. Another way to tell if a man wants sex is to follow his behavior during the date. Wanting to win the female, he will show himself from the best side, keep his legs wide, perform uncontrollable reflex actions. But if a girl starts following his every move, she will be embarrassed, so pay attention to your partner gradually, subtly.

And one more important tip: if you understand that the guy is very excited, he wants to see you in his bed, decide how to continue your communication. An erection without discharge is harmful to the male half. If a girl flirts and hints at sex, but constantly abandons her plans, playing with her partner's feelings, then this will affect the man's health. It is better to stop communicating or directly state that you are not yet ready for sex than to entertain a man with false hopes for a long time.